For years, Steve Flaig, a delivery truck driver a Grand Rapids Lowe’s store, had searched for his birth mother.He found her last Friday, working the cash register at the front of the store. For several months, Flaig and his mother, Christine Tallady, had known each other casually as co-workers.
It was a tough decision for Tallady, unmarried at the time, to give him up when he was born on Oct. 5, 1985, but “I wasn’t ready to be a mother,” she said. Flaig had always known he was adopted. It was never hidden from him by his adoptive parents and they supported him when he began to search for his birth parents.
When Flaig turned 18 he asked DA Blodgett for Children, the agency that arranged his adoption, for his background information. A couple of months later it came and it included his birth mother’s name. He searched the Internet for her address and when it came up empty he gave up the search. But around the time of his 22nd birthday he again took out the paperwork from DA Blodgett and realized he had been spelling his mother’s surname wrong as “Talladay.” He typed “Tallady” into a search engine and came up with an address less than a mile from the Lowe’s store.
He mentioned the coincidence to his boss, and she said, “You mean Chris Tallady, who works here?”
“I was like, there’s no possible way,” he said. “It’s just such a bizarre situation.”
He had been working at Lowe’s for two years. She was hired in April as head cashier.
OK -- I have something to say here. Since when is it OK to "look up your birth parents" if you're adopted? Yeah, yeah -- I know -- the liberals with shitforbrains think it's all hip and lava-lamp like -- but what thinking person buys it?
In reality, it's not hip, it's pathetic. You've got to have very little respect for yourself to go find someone who rejected you and then inflict yourself upon them like a pathetic jilted stalking lover. Ah -- but who cares about others -- right libs?
I've got news for you, If I adopted a kid and raised him for 18 years -- and the fucker went looking for his "real dad" -- I'd have a problem with it. I can't imagine how much it would hurt me ... and my relationship with the kid would never be the same. Course -- I'd NEVER raise a whining, sniveling, self-hating, kumbaya lib -- so it would be low risk.
I wouldn't discourage the kid from doing it because, if I hadn't raised him better than that, it would be too late then.
If you have a medical need, fine -- get the medical info -- but don't go bothering them -- if they had wanted you, they'd have kept you -- GOT ME -- SAD FUCKS.
But Klown -- you weren't adopted and you don't know how it feels.
Yes -- I was, -- and I would NEVER have insulted my dad by looking for my biological father as if I were some lost puppy -- EVER.
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You were adopted? Really? I'd like to see you explain THIS one.
Huh?
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